Trusdale alderman Russell Lee Chaney knew exactly what he was doing from the moment he sent me his very first message. He complimented my red hair and told me how mature I looked. Of course I loved being complimented. When you are a girl you grow up learning that being pretty tops all else. So when anyone gives you that attention it is music to your ears....depending on how that message is delivered. Some men can be pushy and overwhelming; Russell Chaney was not either of those.